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Quote - "Round up all those who are making you miserable, and I'll treat them, so that you will feel better"

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"Round up all those who are making you miserable, and I'll treat them (through therapy), so that you will feel better" - W.D., Lecturer and Psych-therapist.

I forgot the full name of his name but this is roughly what he said as extracted from "Don't Sweat The Small Stuff" which qouted him (hmm.. sounds complicated!).

I was particularly amused by the way he tackles this issue of the human nature to always blame other before himself. Not that i'm implying everyone's like that because I'm sure i'm one of those exceptions, perhaps you are too. But look at those who aren't, and who always feels angry or upset or miserable, and think it's others who brought it to them.

Think again, who's the one to be treated? We only need to change our attitude and all negative feelings would have gone...

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